raising anti-racists
m
We are witnessing a revolution. BLACK LIVES MATTER. Please educate yourself about white supremacy and privilege, and how it has served you. Look inward and do the work to be anti-racist. I know that I have a lot of work to do, and it’s hard to know what to say as a privileged white woman that has benefitted from this country’s systemic racism. However–silence is complicity, and I’d rather say something imperfect than nothing at all. Having an uncomfortable conversation with ourselves and with our children is a necessity. Face the discomfort of these paramount conversations, and then TAKE ACTION. I’m sharing some resources and links that are helping us as a family, and hope that you will share too.
why white parents need to do more than talk about racism
The Conscious Kid: follow them on Instagram and consider signing up for their Patreon
read books about anti-racism and read more Black writers
Coretta Scott King Book Award winners to read with your children
teaching your child about Black History Month
discover the work of anti-racism activist jane elliott
white parents must confront racism by teaching kids how to be antiracist
ten years of blogging
m
Ten years ago today I clicked publish on my first blog post! I’ve spent the last few weeks reflecting on the decade and the impact that this little corner of the internet has had on my life. What began (with a beret) as a creative outlet for my Francophilia and promotion for my design business has evolved to include my life, love, and journey through motherhood. When I started, I was twenty-nine…freshly married, having recently moved to a new state where I knew no one. Now I’m forty…still happily married, living in the same state, and a mother of twins (who are almost eight). Ten years later and it still fuels me, brings me joy, and satisfies my soul…I’ve discovered so much purpose through it.
I’m so thankful that the blogosphere welcomed me with open arms during a time when it was already quite saturated, which still amazes me to this day. I’m so very grateful for friendships forged online…some of my closest offline connections developed from there. On a professional level, my blog has afforded my family and I opportunities that probably wouldn’t have happened otherwise. In these ten years, I’ve taught myself photography, graphic design, and social media marketing, among other things. I am very proud of what I’ve achieved through my hard work and dedication, which has landed me at the doorstep of what is soon to be a huge (secret for now, sorry) career milestone!
So many of you have come along for the ride, from day one…I feel immense gratitude that you’ve stuck with me through the years. This space wouldn’t be what it is without you! Your love and support is palpable, and extends into @thefrancophiles community that I launched a few years ago. It’s such a treat to watch that grow! I thought it would be fun to share my top ten (personal) favorite posts…which has proved to be quite a challenge. I would love to know if you’ve had a favorite post, what you enjoy most about my blog, or what you’d like to see here going forward? Leave a comment and I’ll randomly select one person to receive a personalized goodie bag (I’ll leave the details below) as a thank you. I’m indebted to this community and appreciate you being here more than I can express…MERCI MILLE FOIS! xo, Susan
my personal paris | a very special christmas | things I’m afraid to tell you | henry et marie | paper + plans | it’s not enough | a day in paris with kids | hineni | on gratitude | pressing pause| through the lens |
french-inspired gifts for mother’s day
m
Mother’s Day is around the corner on both continents! While this year is quite different than the last (and giving gifts is a privilege), I still wanted to put together a gift guide for Mother’s Day, with a focus on small businesses. These makers and brands need our support right now, and if we’re able to do so while making maman smile it’s a win. As a devout Francophile and mother, I can honestly say that I would be thrilled to receive any of the items on this list (and ok, I have a few of these items already). This is dedicated to les mamans, but of course can serve as inspiration for anyone special in your life. If you’re not already, be sure to join @thefrancophiles community for more French-inspired ideas!
m
1. this luxe Cire Trudon beeswax candle was created to help save bees + smells divine (it’s still a favorite of mine).
2. these matching organic cotton maman + mini sweatshirts are très mignon (very cute) and so is the entire line!
3. French Girl Organics Hibernation Recovery Duo is a treat for any confined maman (a gift card would be amazing too).
4. treat Mom to hashtag rosé all day with this 3 pc. bento box of rosé-infused gummies by Sugarfina!
5. Paris in Bloom by Georgianna Lane is longer-lasting than a bouquet and is an elegant tour of the city in the spring.
6. purchase a gift card from Maman with the promise of brunch (and a box of cookies) when they reopen!
7. a clever take on the French national motto, this chic tote benefits the amazing organization Every Mother Counts.
8. Èclat chocolate (a local fav of mine) and La Boîte spices blend effortlessly in this gourmet chocolate bar.
9. moms always say OUI to tea and this mug oozes with un charme français…designed by Clare V. for Anthropologie!
10. this velvety body cream by Bastide is super luxe, especially for under $50…you can’t go wrong with this French brand.
winter at the lake
m
We just returned from a lovely long break in the Poconos, and mama nay made our winter wishes come true with the gift of a magical snowfall + frozen lake during our stay! Since we’ve had a mild season (hardly any snow) in our neck of the woods, we headed north to find some – thankfully this trip had been planned since last year. We got our fix of winter fun (and then some)…and stayed super cozy thanks to good friends of ours lending us their lake house. If you follow me on Instagram then you know a little bit about our trip (although I stayed mostly unplugged). It was truly a vacation-—pages replaced screens, the fire stayed stoked, and hardly anything was planned except for rest and relaxation.
m
Continue reading